- There was no consistency in my childhood.
- I desired to create a structured environment.
- There was a constant struggle to find where I fit.
- Always had a push/pull message.
- I learned to accept it because I didn't have any other options.
Also learned:
- Tramatic events can change the structure of our brains.
- Stressful situations that occur now and how we react to them is what we tend to go back to.