I received a response today from Mindy via my Facebook Personal Message:
Lola Gilbert (she doesn't go by Mindy, though Lola is not her name legally)
There is no need for any messages from mom. I told her that I wanted no further communication even in the event of death. Nothing has changed on my end so there is no need for you to relay any message from her.
Please pray for her heart, for the coldness she has towards God, life and people. Pray that He will soften her heart and let this be an opportunity to love her in spite of her anger an blame towards everyone else. My heart aches for her.
More to pray about!